[Solved] Likelihood of gaining primary care rights

Firstly thank you everyone for your replies. Every case is unique and different, I believe mine is too. For example, she's claiming "incapable" as diagnosed IBS. Her friend is a registered Psychiatrist so wouldn't be hard for her to obtain an official report. My question there is, why is she still working as book keeper, HR, pay roll manager duties if she already has "Incapability certificate"... and how come she has been able to enjoy riding her horses at home and at shows? Lastly... she has been getting income from the stables over the last 2 years. That's been her thing. Even though she kept annoying the liveries and they usually left after 6 months, there was still a steady income for her from all that. I never received any of that income, it was all handled through her and by her. I don't ride, scared of horses in fact. But still, she ran a cash in hand operation. I'm afraid to tell fraud people this because it'll open a huge can of worms against her, and no doubt investigations would happen and then a large bill is stamped on her, which can only be paid through the proceeds from the house sale. So ultimately, would hurt us both. She knows full well I'm a good Dad, I have taken her out ever weekend while she enjoyed her horses. It's only since divorce has she suddenly become "incapable" so no longer rides her horses properly.
Would you advice going nasty? Telling fraud people of her announcement of unemployed wife and showing her earnings through my company and also proving other source of income? Does this hurt us both? Does it really get me what I want to achieve, which is for most Dad's, I believe my daughter would benefit the most from having the best life with 50/50 of both parents. I don't want to take her entirely away from her mother, nor do I want to opposite. So... would you... open the can of worms?

I've sent the Email from her Solicitor to mine showing "unemployed wife" is a lie.

Thank you for that link - Appreciated.

hi,

if your ex is behaving rationally & reasonably, then try keep the peace. in my case ex became a mutant. cutting contact with me. utterly heartless. using kids as weapons. so thats when the gloves came off and all kinds of agencies have been informed about someones dodgy activities lol. no more mr nice guy :p

well said:

Hi guys,

My situation worsened massively this week. My ex stole £48k out of our business and now left me with no money at all to fight my side. That money was everything we had left, and most of it was earmarked for corporation tax and VAT bills. I've since posted what's happened this week to gofundme website. I have no idea how I can pay a Solicitor without something like this. I constantly feel like crying.

My ex is being so horrible 🙁

https://gf.me/u/wizxz7