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My names jay im new on here ive been having alot of trouble with my ex wife, we have a 2 year old boy who's 3 in august ive not seen him for over two years as she got a non-molenstation order against me saying i hit her and my my boy which i never did i wouldnt dream of it, at the time i went off the rails with drink and drugs and got another women pregnant, im past that life now i have a very good job im sober and i want to see my son but cant due to funds for a solicitor ect and the non-molenstation order what steps can i take to see him its breaking my heart all i have are pics of him and beginning of last year i even tried suicide i tried hanging myself cause of all the allegations she has come out with and due to the fact i was not in the right frame of mind.
If someone can point me in the right direction on how i can see my son it would be appreciated
Thank you Jay
hi,
it must be tough. just going few weeks without seeing my kids eats me up.
you will need to set aside £215 for a court application. a c100 form.
before you can make court application, you will need to have a chat with a mediator. this can be done for under £100. a video call. they will need to give you permission to apply to court.
you can get c100 (child arrangement order) here:
click on the link for: check if you can apply online
as for mediators, just google. plenty offering video calls for under £100
you can represent yourself in court. theres dads here that have done this.
also, you may be able to get help paying those fees. check out:
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