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It's been a rough couple of months with contact being put back into place after a year of the other parent stopping contact for no reason other than their new relationship, seeing the child for months now alternate weekends, but within the last two weeks, the child has changed attitude, went from wishing they could live here and even this week asking why they had to go back, to other parent stating child does not wish to come anymore nor does he wish to do his scheduled phone calls? I am very concerned that as predicted will be the start of the contact stopping and the child will continue to be alienated from us.
Any advice? the second hearing also coming up and I am led to believe ex will bring up a bunch of new things that we don't agree on to try and add into this.
If I decline new suggestions at the next hearing if I don't agree, will this go into fact finding?
@justlookingforjustice I have no experience of fact finding. this generally happens if lots of allegations are being made by either or both parents and court want to get to bottom of it. If you can not agree on issues with your ex, you can ask court to help and sort it out.
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