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Good evening guys,
Just want people's view on this on this if woman are not as logical as what men are here is why I'm venting,
I pay in child support every single Sunday night before I go to bed so when my childs mum wakes up on the Monday it's ready for the week I'm I very organised guy and have always payed without fail well I got a text at 18.00 on Sunday says "Is child support in" to which I replied "good evening,Every Sunday night this gets paid you don't need to ask" and she just replies oh well shops shut at 4pm on a Sundays maybe if you pay in the morning it's better but I'm sat there thinking ITS FOR MONDAY THATS WHY I PAY SUNDAY NIGHT lol why is she texting me at 18.00 on a Sunday reminding me of something she knows and I know is already taken care off are men naturally more logical than woman?
I would understand if she woke up on a Monday and there was no payment but what's the thought process of asking what I'm already about to do with no issues with payment ever,
All her other payments she has to wait till the correct payment date so why is this different with Maintanance I hate the feeling of being chased for something I'm about to do,surley if you stick to the same day there's less arguments and it's amazing how she can wait for her other payments but can't for for correct day for child support
I need a beer lol
Lol. At least you don't feel alone and she still contacts you :silly:
If you changed to to Sunday morning, in a few months, she'd be asking for Saturday.
Haha it's just sooo frustrating I've even shown her a a calender with Monday to Sunday and said Sunday nights payment is so when you wake up on Monday that's your support for that week(Monday to sunday)which means I shouldn't get any messages from her because I'm covered,
I've also pointed out I must wait for payday like everybody else why can't she wait for her correct payment day,didn't go down well lol
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