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Wife is divorcing me and ruining me

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(@dadmod3)
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When you were prosecuted for the breach and went to court, you should have been offered assistance (free) from the duty solicitor.  You could try contacting the court and say that you wish to plead guilty so avoiding a trial.  If you plead guilty on the day of the trial the costs are high.  You also need to find out if your ex has written a statement of withdrawal.  You also mention an assault which is serious.  For the finances, there is a guide on the advicenow.org.uk website which could you an idea of what to expect.

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(@tireddad)
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My wife has written a statement of withdrawal. I don't know what she has stated though. My case will be heard in the Magistrate Court.

The police are doing NFA for the assault.

For the finances she has also suddenly messaged me about mediators. I still do not have her full financial position though and have told her this.

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(@tireddad)
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My wife has written a statement of withdrawal. I don't know what she has stated though. My case will be heard in the Magistrate Court.

The police are doing NFA for the assault.

For the finances she has also suddenly messaged me about mediators. I still do not have her full financial position though and have told her this.

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(@dadmod3)
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If you wife has written a statement of withdrawal there is a possibility that the case will be dropped.  I suggest you contact the officer in charge of the case to find out what is happening.  If you don't know who it is, then call 101.  If possible avoid the case going to trial as costs will be high.

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This is my update. She only wants to share her pension from the time we were married. Is that correct?

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