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Hi tireddad, PM me if u are able to
@Daddyup I think you are spot on there as she sent the email via her solicitor calling me controlling. I responded quite nicely and said the birth certificate should suffice. She has just bought our son a brand new Ipad has she set up all the controls. She has locations before and I realised she could track our movements so I turned it off I asked if we could have it but initially she refused . I did not mention the controlling however....our son has just come home and the controls are still on. HOWEVER he knew the password and we have turned off screen time .She wrote quite a curt email back referring to the fact that she could not access the passport for HER SON. Not our son. I think her facade is cracking. That email will be going to my solicitor and I will be asking for special measures in court for our hearing because I find that quite threatening. She is very angry that she has not succeeded in removing me or seeing our son more. And we are having our first financial hearing very soon and it is not ideal that is is not living here yet.
@crazyscotman I cannot message you yet.
I also rang the bank and they will accept birth certificates. Not everyone has a passport. She is obsessed with parental responsibility. and the fact she gets it automatically. However right now I am the primary carer but I did not say this as all the emails will be screened by the solicitor I am sure . I do think she has ulterior motives.
Hello again, I would appreciate your views on this . We have our FDR hearing in May. However this is before our second FLA hearing.Does that make sense or should I write to the court to get it vacated? How can they assess our needs if we are still trying to sort out where our son will live? Or do they assess just on the present situation?
@tireddad there is some useful information here. hope it helps:
http://www.familycourtinfo.org.uk/i-need/what-will-happen-at-the-hearing/
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