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Hi, my 2 children (11 & 10) moved to Scotland 6 months ago and I've physically seen them once at xmas since then but have had regular Skype calls, over the past 2 weeks it has been more difficult to get them to call and last night they phoned me to say they don't want to talk to me anymore? Completely out of the blue? I don't know what to do, if there's anything I can do? their mum said she will talk to them but she said she will not make them call if they don't want to?
I'm at a total loss as to what to do...
Hi There,
This is a horrible situation to be in especially as they aren't near by you so you can go and see them, It will be dificult as they have told you they don't want too talk to you, I would imagine it is tough on them being away from you and not being able to see you as well, so they may be reacting to that.
I really don't know what too suggest other than maybe talking to your ex and asking for a set time for Skype calls and still calling at that set time in hope that when you do call they will talk with you.
I really feel for you as you are stuck on the out side with no control over how to resolve this issue.
GTTS
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