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I have a feeling I will get a non molestation order against me. It's been mentioned as a form of threat a few times in emails. Ex came to collect son after a spent a day with him and caused an argument. Now she insists I can't see him, she is too scared of me. Is it wise to apply for one first?
Despite emails asking her not to email me about certain things she has, she came to my house despite me asking her in an email not to. I don't want to see her or hear from now that she is not allowing me to see my son.
Please advice urgently guys I need to do this today.
Try and chill out mate, unless she has concrete proof that you have been intimidating her then it's unlikely she will be able to get one slapped on you and I'd think twice about getting one on her as you will not be able to communicate with her all through the courts or mediation.
To avoid all the hassle I just stopped all communicating as any type of communication does not work you will never ever change her mind about anything, I changed my number and life has been a lot more chilled since I did she has been busting to get me done for harassment but if there's no communication she can't do jack.
I say stop all communication, keep all hers for court and start buliding a good case for yourself, don't get mad get even.
If I don't and she does then I am completely stuffed. I have submitted the c100 but my fear is as soon she finds this out she will try to make things even harder. She will actually do anything this girl to make sure I don't see our son. I need not to have her give me a non molestation which her solicitor has suggested to her although all talks has always only been about child
It doesn't matter they will find a way to bosh a non mol on you one way or another, you'd be struggling to get one on her anyway as these women are above the law in family law I'm afraid so your stuffed to be honest.
As long as you have no communication from now onwards they cant get one on you but if you keep replying to anything they will find a way, These seem to me like empty threats and the solicitor is bound to push for one as it's more money for that money grabbing *******.
My ex has been exactly the same and be prepared it's going to get a whole lot worse when you do fill out the c100 like I said she is going to do everything in her power to stop you seeing your child and no communication is going to change that, the police will brush her application for a non mol off but if you keep replying your gonna have one slapped on you.
The best way is to completely cut her off change your phone number email the lot my ex went tits when I done this as it meant she couldnt get me the Police told me to do what I have done and it saves anything getting thrown at you in the long run.
Put it all to one side, get on with your life dont let it consume you else she has won π
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