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Hi all. Its been a while since I've posted.. So I had the pre trial hearing last week. I found out couple of days before my ex is planning to take my children abroad without telling me. I told my Barrister, who told the judge. My ex was asked in court if that's true by the judge. She said she'd booked a holiday, but not paid for it?? Bullshit. Anyway the judge warned her of she went without telling me, then it's a criminal mater. My ex was fuming I'd found out.. She then whispered to her solicitor, who then said, my client wishes to make another allegation.. She then told her solicitor that I've spoken to my little girl and gave a locket.. Knowing I'm on a non molestation order. Judge asked me if its true, no I wasn't ma'am.. Allegations dismissed. Anyway I'm back in court on 28,29,30 of this month for a 3 day fact finding hearing. Oh, and her latest allegation is I shouted and screamed and swore at my children to put away their toys in the living room..... Shes also been allowed to have her friend and eldest daughter in on the fact finding to testify against me.. Again all lies, lies and lies.. I'll keep you all posted.. Thanks guys.. Devo....
keep repeating calmly . sorry your honour what she is saying is not factual and didn't happen. she will have to get evidence to prove it. only way without evidence they can have a ruling in their favour is very obvious to see. her solicitor when cross examining you will try to see if you aren't telling the truth and main thing is she will want you to lose it, raise your voice , get agitated so she can say see this is what he is like. let it all go over your head and keep going on calmly how important it is for your child to see their father
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