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I feel so sick and exhausted and consumed. I feel like I've lost my kids and my whole life due to ongoing relentless orders. What's the point? How can you fight something that's a lie and orders are dished out in the interim. I feel so Ill I feel my mind and body is shutting down. I feel like if justice isnt done next month I might just end it.
Hello Jay, thanks for coming and sharing here. I am sure @bill337 will jump in here with some practical support. Everyone here understands how tough this time can be. Keep asking for any support you need and if appropriate for you, think about getting some counselling. We do offer it (Counselling with Fegans | DAD.info I'm sorry it isn't free) or of course you can talk with your GP, if you are employed, your employer may well have some helplines you can use. Or if you want to keep it anonymous contact CALM (0800 585858) they open at 5pm or the Samaritans at any time of day (116123). All best, Nell. Dad.info Editor
hi Jay,
sorry to hear your having a tough time. do you mind giving little background of what has been happening with your situation and courts?
@bill337 non mol now dismissed just final hearing for occ order. Losing faith. They will end up giving it by what in reading
@jakeyjay are you represented by a lawyer? Are you seeing your children at present?
2 if them but not older one. She suddenly doesnt want to see me since occ order over my head.
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