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So havent been on for ages but a quick update coming upto a year since i seen child i met up with psychologist it was good to get there view on situation i have said that mom is controlling child they are also actually listening to me for once which is good but at last i got some feed back from child guardian that was appointed aka cafcass officer and my child has drawn me a letter and made me a gift and written however the cafcass officer is finally noticing the control from mom as child laughed at the card i sent child and child talked about me in positive way apart from saying i told the child off for being naughty once which isnt a crime and cafcass agreed every child gets told off anyway after this positive feed back at last however small it may be its great but also cafcass have noticed how controlling my ex is because when child was asked if they would like to take gift home child did not want to so cafcass now think that its mom controlling child because they have noticed that when child is alone with cafcass the child is posative but infront of cafcass and mom is negative and cafcass are now clicking on at last that this is moms control and mom stoping child and father having a meaningful relationship so its been some positive news for once and hopefully cafcass can start to see the real picture
Hi There,
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That sounds like a great step in the right direction, well done for sticking with fingers crossed for you.
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GTTS
Thank you for posting back, really happy to read that. It also goes to show how resilient children can be, even though the child hasn't seen you in a year, she still shows positive feelings towards you.
I'm really sorry that you and your child are going through this.
That's really positive news, thanks for updating us.
Once that bond between father and child has been forged, it's practically unbreakable... you still hold a place in your child's heart and it has proved that its worth fighting with everything that you have to be in your child's life.
All the best
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