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Hi guys. I thank all of you on here that have helped me. You have been kind and thoughtful in your replies to me. I know you will think me as weak, and I am. I can't cope with not seeing my children again. My wife had me arrested on false allegations again. First in 2012, I went back to her for the sake of my baby girls, then my son was born, and 2 years later my 4th baby girl was born. 11 10 7 and 5 are their ages. I've been with them everyday of their lives. I watched them be born. Now, like many here I am having to fight, the woman who I thought loved me for 14 years, in court. Not only to see my children, but to fight her allegations. I love my children, but I don't see any hope now of ever seeing them again, something changed my wife, in less than 9 hours, she had me arrested, she emptied the bank account, and left me homeless. Scott schedules, witness statements, Barristers, court, to and fro, I can't do it no more. She has turned everyone we knew against me, I've drained my family with it all, the endless worry, the anxiety. I thought, really thought I could push on and get through it all. But I can't. I'm exhausted, physically, mentally and lost in a cycle of despair and emotional pain. Thanks everyone for listening to me... I'm done.. Devo.
Devo,
Things always work themselves out. All of the guys on here are here because they are having a hard time and need some advice or support. They will all get through it and you will too.
I know things hurt just now but it will honestly get better. Please don’t do anything silly.
Drop us a message and let us know you are ok. All your friends on this site will be worried about you mate.
Never give up mate . You have to march on for yourself and your children
Devo,
Drop Mind a text on 86463. They will help you sort through your feelings and will give you some help and support.
I promise you that you will feel differently in the morning.
Devo,
I've been reading these forums for over a year now but have never posted before until I saw your message.
My partner is going through the same [censored] as you. 2 years of not having any contact with his children and horrendous allegations that have been accepted by the court without evidence. We are losing hope too.
My partner was at rock bottom before he met me and was suicidal. Ended up in hospital.
But he got help before he did anything to hurt himself.
If you feel you're at that point, please ring 999 or go to A&E and tell them.
I'm not able to say the court situation will all be ok. But from talking to my partner I know that with help, you can get through this. If you have family friends please reach out to them.
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