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[Solved] Submitting Evidence for a non-molestation order

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(@dad-i-d)
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@Bill
I did initially think the same but what he needs to do is to prove he is not the one initiating the contact with his ex and that she is in fact enticing him to contact by for want of a better word "soliciting" herself.

you can bet 1million% that if he did the same to her he'd be arrested for sexual harassment or worse!

I would sensor the images (not face) so you can prove you are the one being harassed by her.

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I don't believe it would be classed as revenge porn as you aren't publishing these images anywhere.

I received a court bundle from my ex's solicitor. They are claiming that I have breached the order: 'The respondent is forbidden to to disseminate by any means photographs of the Applicant'.

The are accusing me of trying to harass the Applicant by using these images within the court proceedings within my exhibits.

The face is blocked out in the image I sent and one was in lingerie. I only added images that were in reference to periods of time when she accused me of corcercing her to have [censored]. Also text messages that are related to the pictures were included to show that anything we did was mutual.

It's also stated that she is concerned that the court staff, the judge and her legal representatives have seen these pictures.

I plan to send and email to the judge/court explaining that I have not breached the order as I have only responded to the Applicant's allegations and I was in no way trying to harass her.

I'm not happy at all because I've asked for a undertaking which the judge had also suggested she take, but she refused on 3 occasions now which has led to us having to go to a final hearing.

I just don't want to get arrested for breaching the order as I was not trying to harass her and the images and messages are related to allegations she's made against me in reference to forcing her to have [censored], which isn't true.

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(@dadmod4)
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I cannot see that including these images to court is disseminating images, but it might be worth getting some professional legal advice to confirm this. I'd also bring up that message from her solicitor to the court to show that they are trying to suppress relevant documentation.

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As ACTD has just responded...

Also, if it was me in that situation knowing what I know now, I would be off to the police station to report her for harassing you by sending unwanted contact messages of graphic and sexual nature....
when at court explain that you reported it to the police as unwanted contact and harassment.

harassment goes both ways!

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I would suggest calling the court and asking them. You can write a cover letter stating you are submitting this evidence to prove the accusations are untrue, not in any way to embarrass her.

If you contest the order, then a fact and finding hearing would be required and evidence will need to be submitted. I should not matter how graphic the images and texts are, it is proof a the end of day and should be used if needed.

Good luck with it all.

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