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So I guess this is just to see if what ppl say is all fairy tale stuff or do children if stopped by there mothers and brainwashed in mycase as my child is do children when they grow up go and find there dads .people say to me all the time that when he or she grows up and knows there own mind they will come find you .I guess sometimes I think my ex has done such a good job of brainwashing that this won't happen and my child won't find me .but then part of me thinks of course my child will find me when they grow up if all goes bad at the final hearing in a few months and I don't get contact which ATM is highly likely until reports from professional psychologist says otherwise .has anyone had there child come looking for them when they been alienated against them but when child grows up they come find there dad .I guess hearing ppls stories gives me hope I know all situations are different but they give me hope inside thanks ppl .
I don't have personal experience in reunited with child after long separation but, I have few friends who have same situation. They have been separated with their dad for long time. They started to look for their when they were teens. According to them, they want to complete the missing part. Hopefully, you will be reunited with your child too.
I could tell you 2 stories of kids that came back looking for their fathers, but I think you are getting ahead of yourself here. It's understandable, what you are going through is super difficult and I'm sorry for it.
You still have the psychologist and the final hearing ahead of you. Focus on those ! What can you do today that will help you and your kid during the psychologist session ?
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