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DadForever123... I’m glad the situation didn’t develop for you, it might be worth trying to discuss the situation with her, now the question has arisen.
A parenting plan might be useful for you both, to set out some guidelines and work on a plan that you are both on board with, working on an “introducing new partners” section would avoid any misunderstandings in the future.
Bill... it’s worth remembering that our children spend most of their childhood at school, their teachers spend more time with them than we do! That’s why its important to develop a good relationship with the school and to get fully involved.
When one parent stops the other parents natural interaction with their children’s education, the children suffer, emotionally and educationally, it’s part of the process of parental alienation... I’d give some thought to getting more involved with school life Bill, regardless of what the ex wants.
Glad sports day didn't end up being problematic.
Agree with Mojo - it might be good to look at a parenting plan or at least try to have a discussion with the ex about moving forward.
Bill - any judge / sw will tell you how important it is for both parents to be involved in their children's education. It's why PR exists. There are laws you can ask the school to abide by if you want to try and get involved.
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