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Hi guys.. Has anyone ever had to do a double Scott Schedule before? I've just had my copy of the court order, from my C100, child arrangements order. In the order it states both parties to list 6 allegations, and both parties must submit a Scott Schedule. I just thought I had to get my wifes one and answer it?? Any advice would be much appreciated... And on it goes...
hi devo,
take a look at this:
https://childlawadvice.org.uk/scott-schedule/
they have document template there so you can use same format.
Hi City Dad. Although the court order has specified both my wife and I to submit a Scott Schedule, is it a must for me? I know it sounds silly, but I'm anxious that if I do one as well it will just make her more angry, and she will come out with even more allegations against me. All I need is to see our children. It's been 4 long months I've not seen them, and it's killing me to be honest. She's become a woman I no longer know, after 14 years of marriage. She's become spiteful, and vicious, all cause I caught her cheating, again.. And on it goes.....
Hi devo
I’d do precisely what the court orders you to do . She may well make more allegations but the ones they will investigate will be the ones on the schedule and witness statements . I think by virtue of the fact you’re having these problems , as so many on the forum are , she’s already angry and being unreasonable etc . Believe you me , I’d be very surprised if your ex doesn’t make up and old thing in court . Mine has . Now it comes down to evidence . So just present your case if you have any concerns , Etc and submit to the court with stuff like screen shots of texts emails etc anything that .dont worry about your ex . When you have an order she won’t be able to stop you . The courts are used to seeing people lie and make up and old thing . A lot of people fell into the trap of trying to play the game for an easy life . I did for 2 years . Nothing changes
Plus if you don’t submit it then you’ll be in trouble for breaching the order
hi,
yes I agree with cityday. it makes no difference now, to how angry or hostile she becomes. she became more hostile as soon as she received court papers for first hearing.other dads on hear and me have been through this process. ex even argues about you wanting to have phone calls with your kids lol. so now see it through to the end. all you want is to see your children and be a loving father.
Yes, I agree too - the fact that it's in court at all means that the situation is hostile, you may as well get it all out of the way now, and you want to comply with the court as you don't want them to chastise you for not complying as that sets a bad tone for you in court.
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