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Thanks @Daddyup. I do not think she would be agreeable to me going there in her absence and we do not have any mutual friends. My friends were her friends so they would support me I guess. She did/does not really have any friends. Hence me just wanting to go there when she is at work.
I can afford it all. It is just frustrating to be paying for her to live there when it is my house. The system is very unjust.
Living with my mother is very restrictive.....
Although there may not be any restrictions on you going to the house, you could put yourself in a difficult position. Will she accuse you of taking her things for example? Would she bag them up and leave them for you to pick up? If the utilities are in your name and you stop paying that could affect your credit rating. Can you get them transferred to her? What does the solicitor advise?
Thank you for your advice @Champagne. Her credit rating is incredibly bad as I looked after all the finances for the home so you could be right. I just don't want to pay for anything when I do not live there. The hearing for the OO is definitely not happening next month. It is now in the Summer. At this rate she could be in the house for for the rest of this year. How fair is this system? It makes no sense to me when it is my home. I think I will ask my solicitor to write to her to bag my possessions. My concern is that the longer this drags on the less likely I will succeed with my OO and CAO application. It is laughable when it was her who assaulted me and the courts refused an exparte. OO application which has allowed her to stay put.
Hello, so she refused consent to renew the non mol. Should I reapply?
We are now acting on our Form Es. Do I have to submit my credit card statements ?
Do many financial cases go to the final hearing?
She is being so obstructive.
You can apply to get the NMO extended as there are still ongoing proceedings. Has she breached it? I've known a financial case go to the final hearing but then again, I expect many don't. Yes, in 2.9 you need to included money owed on credit cards
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