[Solved] Partner doesn't like my child

it's a very awkward horrible situation at the moment just want baby out of my partner so shes not I'll and stressed anymore and then deal as it comes luckily my eldest is 8 so soon have a phone and means less Involvement with ex ect. I keep telling myself something is better then not ever seeing her but it's not ideal. I just feel so guilty all the time like am I doing enough and I'm wrong but I dono it's horrible

another weekend passed another awkward visit daughter came with a flem cough this time always comes with some sort of infection or grubby so I did my normal routine clean change her clothes from mums and my partner was awkward again. shes been alot worse since pregnant shes been sick throughout and feels like [censored] but even she admitted when she was calm she goes over the top with my child and if I men4ion her name she gets angry well back to it another visit another awkward she barely said 2 words to her but tbh my child goes with everyone so she never picks up on it. my partner went to her sisters most of the weekend she said irs either that or she just sits there not liking it feeling awkward. so yeah come today got letter partner been pushing csa more and has I creased it all my partner said we cant afford my daughters saving each week as we dont get enough money so that upset me but is she right? my x gets all the money for her and when she comes we pay and I pay csa w3 have savings for our child but its out of ou3 money we get for her that's what she says but 4he amount of guilt I always feel is unreal I really try to treat them equal but it's so hard when they have differnt lives but is my partner right

also my x is kicking off alot lately basically I've asked for more days for ages she originally said yes but wait for awhile so 6 months later she finally said take me to court if you want more so I gave up accepted it the other week I messaged saying I had to reduce it abit due to my job being [censored] I use to be flexible not it's fixed hours so if I got her my partner would be watching her and I dont do that as I do full care of her as shes my kid and in the past my x has constantly moaned about it so anyway I say this and she replys kicking off saying what you dont want her now and blah blah blah. and she never said it wouldnt increase. load of bs so yeah basically when I begged for more she fucked about and when I said less it's like shes shocked that I'm not begging. I got a sarcastic message back saying your partner can have her you need to work more as I need more csa random [censored]. me and my partner both work but part time as anymore hours fucks us were worse off but I think all this adds to why my partner hates it all

litrally just got bck to my partner and she wrote me a massive letter basically saying she wants it sepeate ect and if anything happens to the baby because of my daughter going back reporting us or any infections ect she would never forgive me. I'm so [censored] confused on what to feel or do anymore

hmm, what else is there to try. does your partner have a place of her own, separate accomodation? can she stay with her family for a bit, until after babies born?