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basically my daughter comes for me my partner said she wouldnt ever see eye to eye and when shes here she feels she cant even sit down in her own house ect so it's all pretty annoying but its her problem I know that but either u break up and have a newborn baby with a sepeate family and my child having sepeate or you try to make the best
almost every single parent out there will agree that their children come first, and their partner will have to accept that. when you split with your ex, you were supposed to move on. but it seems there has been no change. in my situation, I would never settle down with a partner who does not accept being around my children. if they don't like it, they know where the door is.
cheers for the reply I agree weve been together almost 8 years now tho and its developed like this over time mainly through the [censored] my ex causes and still causes so the whole situation has slowly built up to thos thats why I find it hard
i guess all you can really do then, is spend time with your children alone, and give your partner some space, as you have been doing. taking your partner on weekend breaks, or a weeks holiday should improve the situation.
worth a shot. I guess some people are natural step parents some arnt. she started off really well with my daughter when we got together but it's over times with my ex and all the [censored] she does she just cant cope with it all anymore
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