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Has anyone come across this condition? There is a raft of information about it on the net. I discovered it by accident in the Letters column in the Daily Mail one day.
As like most of these syndromes, it started in USA. Courts became aware that fathers were being wrongly excluded from their children's lives, and that, although apparently hostile to contact with the father, the children resumed a normal happy relationship with him if taken from the clutches of the brainwashing mother. Courts have thus been ordering children to stay with fathers, where requested by them, against the children's wishes, in order for some semblance of normality to return. The experiment has been extremely successful.
Apparently the practise is just beginning to have a limited momentum now with English Court, but I'm in Northern Ireland, and may as well be in the Dark Ages. I have spent thousands winning court battles, yet having less and less contact with my children? My ex defies Court Orders with impunity, and gets away with it. My children are being psychologically affected by it all. From their birth, I was the main carer. My ex was a high flying executive and I was happy to take the role of house husband, even though I also had a business to run. My ex has lied to get all the child credits, child benefit, etc, when they were living with me for 75% of the time. I was paying for everything for them, yet she reported me to CSA who take a further £500 off me each month when I never owed a penny? And of course she took the house which been paid for mainly be me and most of my belongings. That's justice for you.
Andy Armstrong.
Hi Andy, welcome to the forum 🙂
sadly it's very common. There are a lot of members on here going through this so you're in good company, my partner is one of them. There are quite a lot of posts of that nature in the Legal Eagle section.
Take a look at
http://karenwoodall.wordpress.com/
She's a therapist and author who specialises in this condition.
Is there any cases where farthers have won custody due to pas
Im going through the same been made out to be a monster
Whilst PA is slowly being accepted as part of the problem in English courts, it's far from mainstream yet unfortunately. I'm not personally aware of residence being transferred to the father due to PA, but there have been cases where residency has been transferred to a father through enforcement of contact where the mother has been implacably hostile, which I guess will have a strong element of PA in the mix...this is still a very rare occurrence though!
Thanks for the reply mojo
I have contact every other weekend fri_sun
2 phone calls a week although this does not always take place
I have concerns about some things my son has told me but could not prove any thing
Sons mother new partner a drinker
im a self rep dad
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