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Hi all I'm new hear. I really need some advice.. I am a single dad who has always paid for his children ...I understand that I have to pay the problem I have is almost a year ago my ex said her bank was overdrawn and I need to pay her in cash witch I didn't mind ... The problem has now arisen since my daughter had been put into my car from social services...my ex has contacted child maintenance and told them I have not paid I did have a recept book but can't find it since I moved house... Is there anything I can do to prove it ...even my children have said she's in the wrong but I seem to be banging my head against a wall
Any advise would be appreciated
The question that springs to mind is that is there a particular reason why you need to prive that you paid money over, as I presume the CSA weren't involved. This means they can't backdate it.
Hi There,
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I think we need a little more info, were CSA involved then or is this the first time they have been contacted, if it's the first time they have been contacted then they can only back date the payments to the date you're ex contacted them, and actually if this was at the time, you took you're daughter with SS assistance then she doesn't even have a claim as you're daughter I would assume is now living with you.
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If CSA were involved from the point that you started paying cash then you need to find that reciept book as that will be the only way to stop the back dated payments or it will be your word against her's.
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GTTS
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