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Just a quick one, my ex relented as soon as she got the letter for mediation. Agreed I could see my daughter one day a week, but no overnight stays because she's too young.
Shortly after, I find out that her sister's have been having my daughter overnight to 'give her a break'.
I've not called off mediation yet, nor responded to her emails.
Am I better just to continue with mediation?
Hi There,
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If it were me I would continue with the mediation, it sounds as though there are things that need to be discussed, and mediation is a good place to do that, you will then be able to bring up over nights and also try for more time also, the fact that her sister has your daughter over night but she won't allow you seems bad, hopefully a mediator will help you get this sorted.
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GTTS
That's what I thought. I do have screenshots of her sister posting on Facebook that she's had her overnight on at least 2 occasions.
I would try another session and point out that if your child can stay with the aunt, they can stay with you.
If it is apparent that mediation is not going to work, the mediator can stamp the C100 for you to make an application to the court.
Good luck
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