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Looking for any advice on this subject.
Ex has applied for a no notice non molestation order.
I’m due in court next Tuesday, I’ve paid for a solicitor to write into the court with my statement.
In short she has claimed every type of abuse... given examples, which are all lies, and she has no proof, as non of this ever happened, and is all lies
I believe she is just trying to bring my down, and stop me seeing my children, and make life a misery.
has anyone got any advice on what I can expect in court, and has anyone gone without a solicitor as had a quote of 1000-2000£ and from what I can make out it’s likely to end in an undertaking, which I’m happy to go with mainly just to protect myself.
Does anyone have any advice on going forward as I’m terrified she is going to say I’ve turned up etc... once this is in place, I have downloaded a tracking app.
Thanks for your time
Don’t use a solicitor . Was of time and money . You can get a direct access barrister to rep you on the day for £500
Hi. I'm going through the exact situation as you right now.. My wife took out an ex parte non molestation order against me in June this year.. Then she withdrew all the money from the bank account. It left me homeless, and being disabled as well in absolute despair..i went to court 2 weeks later and didn't even have an option to have an undertaking, due to the lies from her.. Thing is she did the same to me in 2012, made a 22 page statement of lies of DV, 4 weeks later it was NFAd by the police.. She was full of regret, or so I thought and we worked on our marriage, 7 years on, after I found out of yet another affair she was having, we had the usual arguments about it all etc. Then one night she went berserk out of the blue. She left with our 4 children, for 2 days. That night she came home and said she wanted me out, I said no let's just talk and work through things.. She left again, that night I was arrested for common assault and coerced behaviour,, again all lies.. I've not seen my children in 3 months.. I'm in Court next week for my C100to be heard.. And on it goes... But you know what, in a weird way I take comfort that she done the exact same thing to me in 2012...
Hi devo
Many thanks for your reply. I’ve had my solicitor draw up my response today and see how it plays out next Tuesday when I go to court.
I feel for what you’ve gone and are going through, keep going, you will be alright in the end and your kids will be so happy to see you. Chin up and keep smiling
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