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hi everyone.just joined,i am a dad who is going through [censored],my x partner had taken me to court last year.she took me to court for non molestation order and occupation order,she lost the non molestation,but won the occupation order.the judge said he didnt belive a word of her allegation and i had to take an undertaking,and he looked at me and said i am awarding her the house,and told me becuase chldrens act.why did he use my own chldren to deprive me and the children of eachother,when he found me not guilty.and made me homeless for 9 months and told her to let me see the chldren,which she hasnt for 9months ,now i have been unwiell because of all the lies and living in a hostel and i just dont trust the system anymore not guilty but punished by for 9 months.well 9 months over in 3. weeks and bang bang on the door got served again for whatshe faild lasttime non molestation,now can she really take me back for what was found to be false last time i dont under stand .its the same things she said as last time.worded diffentlly . i need help anythiing would be hepfull ..need help.....she even said i never hit her,and nothing about me being a danger to the chidren.but now keeps saying the children dont want to see me.when my son said to me he wants to stay with me for weekend at the begining now how did it all change if she hasent alienated me.so back to court for same allegations that got thrown out last time.what do i do,its not fair,the tenancy is in both names council property.
Hi there
I'm really sorry to hear this is happening to you all over again. Have you had any contact at all with your ex that might have provoked this?
It might help if you write a short position statement for the court and explain what happened last time and what is the case at the present time.
It might help if you attend a Families Need Fathers meeting in your area where you will get direct advice and support. Here's a link to their website where you'll find a list of meetings nationally.
www.fnf.org/help-and-support-2/local-branch-meetings
It might be useful to make an appointment at your local CAB office, they should also be able to advise you, and some solicitors offer a free initial consultation where you can also get some answers.
Best of luck
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