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hi mojo
received another courts judgement and the result is same.
indirect contct only .nothing being said did i hit my children no supervised contact .cafcass killer .i dont know shall i go for review or not if ithink so what shall i do ?
i think its better for me to quit from anything lies alwys win
in family courts.i think i m done
I'm sorry to hear this John, you've tried so hard I know... I wouldnt make any decisions right now, while your feeling so let down and upset, see how the indirect contact goes and then make a decision about the review when you're feeling a little better.
I think, as you've tried so hard up to now, it's better to see it through to the end, otherwise if you walk away before everything has been tried, you will always wonder what might have happened if you'd fought on.
Give yourself some time off and do stuff that you enjoy to try and get back to normal, then make your decision.
ye mojo
this decission has put me into bed .i didnt think but the thing is if i wait for review and in case i am successful this woman isnt getting it to be successful but do u think involving a pschologist could be helpful because i want the lies to be exposed if you yes then hoe shall i do that?she asked to come in court on 18 to handover the judgement but i dont want to go in a place where there is no justuce for my children.i know i can appeal it as now she added 3 dv incidents but on fact finding there wete 3 .do u think in appeal there is any chance.its current leagal aid system which i would say corrupt.i want to complaint about the cafcass ad well in court she said i have spoken to school and he didnt attend any parents evening i called the school and they said they dont keep any record .i have attended some but they say they dont keep any record.can u tell me how many fathers are in the same boat as i am.can i request to change the judge in review?i know i asked many questions but i am helpless
thnx
sorry there were 2 dv incidents which she found in fact finding
I think I would take Mojo's advice at present and give yourself a few days at least to reflect on things and plan a way forward when the emotions aren't running so high.
You can appeal if you think a court has made an error in law on the decision, but you only have a few weeks to do that.
It might help to get some solid legal advice if you can.
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