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:woohoo: really great full to have found this site, been having a good look its really good to know that am not alone.
Hi and welcome.
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Darren
was looking for advice because of my ex nearly 4 years now,when she doesn't like something stops me from seeing my children iv asked her to re-register 2 of the birts an to get something in writing so even if she gets her hair in a twist the kids will still be able to come.what would be the best way of doing this an also what would the content be? it was ok till i got a new partner,then she wouldnt even let me have them at my home for a while,but it was fine for her.she always tries to dictate what i can an where i can take them now,its driving me insane
Not an unusual situation I'm afraid, especially when a new partner appears on the scene (it's human nature, whatever the reason for the break up, and whichever partner wants it, it's difficult to accept that the other partner can simply move on and find someone better).
Your best starting point is to go for mediation - it can be more difficult to be unreasonably stubborn when there's someone independant mediating - and if an agreement is reached, then get it written into a court order.
hi stressed dad , if you look on my threads i posted u will see the chew i,ve been having lol
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