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Really looking forward to going through what looks like an amazing forum and support network.
I’ve been separated from my ex (been together 20 years, never married - should have split long ago, but ‘for the sake of the kids’) for 20 months. I’ve moved on but she’s still very bitter and although the main childcare arrangements are sorted, she’s dragging her heals in and the finances are next.
Going to have a good read and digest then delve into what to do next.
TIA
Tim
Hi Swax and welcome along!
Please feel free to ask any questions and we will do our best to support you.
Are you using a solicitor? As you were unmarried the rules are different regarding finances, so it might b a good idea to get some proper legal advice about what to expect. Some solicitors offer a free initial consultation which you may find helpful.
Best of luck
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