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I have another question thats been playing in my head...My little girl is having a birthday party this weekend...I know where it is, should I show my face despite what might be said and despite me not being invited, I've never missed my baby's birthday.
If you think there might be a scene if you show up, perhaps you should try to speak to your ex about it beforehand and agree to avoid any confrontations in front of your daughter? Whilst I understand it would be upsetting to miss her party, it would be probably be more distressing for your daughter to have her parents arguing......If that;s not an option, maybe when you have managed to agree some contact with your ex, you could do something separately with your little girl?
I might just leave it but I was thinking if I don't show up she would hold it against me and if I did show up it would probably be a scene so I really don't think I will win either way.
Perhaps you could try sending her a very brief message asking for her preferences regarding your attendance?
My ex messaged me out the blue and she is letting me see her now she has come to her senses, I'm so so happy right now
That's good news, maybe you and your ex can sort stuff out for the future now. π
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