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Having a child is an invasion of privacy please see below,
-Baby mother looks at my income every year
-Baby mother will find out what i do on my days off when I've got my kids by asking the kids "so what you been upto with daddy all weekend"
- My address is on the birth certificate (privacy fail)
-If I have a woman over the kids will tell mom
-If I'm single kids will tell mom
Worst privacy issue is defo the income one ,should other people be aware of any income rise you may have ?
I think just focus on the kids and the bigger picture. It is what it is.
CMS have to know your income so that you pay the correct amount towards your children's upbringing.
The same could be said in reverse about if the mother has a relationship - I'm sure the children would probably talk to you about it.
Asking children what they have done with the other parent is a perfectly natural question. If they went to their grandparents for a day or on a school trip you would ask them what they have done.
Children want to share their lives with their parents, it's that simple π
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