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Hi
My Son turns 19 in a few months - I last saw him twice in 2014 but I stopped the contact because it was harming the both of us and before that I didn't see him since 2007
He was put there to be horrible to me and he was referring to me by my first name - He was severely alienated
I'm up against a Narc grandfather and Narc mother
I want to make contact with him now that he is older but i'm scared of rejection Because I don't know what lies have been said to him about me
Thank you
hi,
there is some useful info here: https://www.aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-2020/estranged-child.html
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