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Hello
well i really dont know where to start and first time on here i guess a bit of background would help so here goes
i broke up with my ex over 5 years ago i have 3 children 2 of which are biological 1 is not.i havent seen my children for
all of this time.i had letterbox contact for a few years which i did but when this date elapsed i couldnt bring myself to write to them it was destroying me.then i lost both my parents in the last 18 months makeing life very difficult to live with.i have started the new year on a positive note and take 1 day at a time
so now the question is how to write a letter my Daughter will be 16 in may this year 2 boys 13 and 15 so i think Daughter should be of age to read her own post and make decisions?was thinking of sending her a letter registered post.
My Daughter as far as i know doesnt know that i am not her Biological father but i have no idea as to what she has been told over the years should i write to all 3 children at the same time as i dont want the lads thinking im only writeing to daughter.i thought of adding email address and a phone number but just dont know where to start or stop
i hope that somebody can point me in the right direction and thankyou for any replies in advance.
When you were writting to the kids did you get replies to your letters?
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