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Also a lot of people’s exes are making up all sorts in court . She’ll
Have to provide evidence . Make sure you fight your comer and use anything you have , emails , texts whatever to put your position across
Hi City Dad. Thank you. I've not got a lot really. A few texts she sent to my sister, pics of bite marks on my arm, GP report of when she stabbed my finger... Thing is I just don't want to fight. I've been put in a position, where I've no choice but to. I just don't want to...
Hello Devo,
Pleased to hear from you. You are NOT weak you're exhausted. No one can feel normal in abnormal circumstances!
There is light in your dark black tunnel, I believe confirmation from the Schools and Social Services that the children are missing you is a huge step in your favour. If I remember correctly two / three of your children are of the age where the courts will take their views very seriously.
With regard to the courts, they are very experienced in seeing through the disgraceful behaviour some mothers engage in. Traumatically for the father when a mother engages in this appalling behaviour and false accusations, the courts have to investigate thoroughly for the sake of the children. Consequently leaving the father in limbo, totally puzzled and distraught by the whole process.
Can you find someone who is close to you to help with your paperwork in the next few days before you go to court?
Court is totally centred round the children, their welfare, safety and their right to have their father in their lives.
Far from being weak, it takes tremendous strength to admit you're struggling with your mental health.
Strength to fight through the appalling family court system for what you know to be for the good of your children.
If they have a mother willing to go to these lengths then they need you more than ever in their lives.
Thank you Motherofafather. Can I pm you please?
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