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I'm sorry to all of you, I didnt want to cause any concern about me. I posted earlier about just how bad I feel, and that she's stacked everything against me. I'm really, really struggling and just not able to cope any more. Like I said earlier, I'm so lost in all the statements, court orders, paperwork etc . My ex, will put everything in my way, to stop me from seeing my children. I know I should fight on, and hold my head up. But with all what she's said and done to me, I can't see I stand a chance in court. My children are missing me, confirmed by the schools, and Social Services. I know I'm weak. Yes, sadly I've become the weakest man on here. Even by some miracle, I get contact with my children, my ex will play games, delay tactics, and poison them against me. I just can't see any chink of light in my dark black tunnel.... Sorry everyone..
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The positives to take are that the school and social services can confirm your children are missing you. That is obviously what they will take in to consideration, that your kids miss you and want to see you. Your ex might not like it, but the courts, CAFCASS and social services will say that it is important that your relationship continues. Your ex can play games all she likes, but she will only get away with it for so long.
Just keep telling yourself, your kids miss you and love you. They want to see you too, and you will. You just have to jump through hoops to do it. Don't do anything silly, we all have bad days were we feel like giving up. You said it yourself, your children miss you, so don't be leaving them behind.
Just use this forum to let off steam. Nobody will judge you for it.
Thank you Ferfer..
Hi if you are struggling with the statements etc call the court and they will provide you with Templates: theyβll be on line too . I was sent one as the Ex isnβt represented . Any questions ask here and a lot of people will help guide you ...
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