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Hello Everyone.
My name is Phil and I am recently separated from my partner (not married) and my 5 year old son.
My issue is that I was served a Non-Mol order against me on the 3rd of November - this was done in order for my ex to remain in the house as she wanted to live there and didn't want me living there too.OK, things go wrong for plenty of others....
Ultimately, I have left the house to ensure no aspect of the order was breached and sought legal advice.
To this day I have not returned to the house and I have not been able to see my 5 year old boy - this is crippling me and I am sure a lot of you will know the type of pain I am feeling. I hope that this issue will be started to be addressed at / just after the hearing for the order in 2 weeks time.
However - my question is this
I have left the house, I left with 1 small bag. My work is in the house(work from home office), tooling is in the house, my clothes are in the house and my car is still in the house. How do I go about getting these with an Non-Molestation order against me ??
Surely I cant be kept away from my things and my car - how am I meant to live ??
Is this normal, has anyone else ever had to face this ?
Any advice would be great as I am not getting an answer from my ex's solicitor and I am going around in ever decreasing circles on this one
I look forward to hearing any pearls of wisdom !
Phil
I believe this is in the wrong section and dont know how to move it - sorry !
I believe if you contact your local police station and tell them, they should be able to arrange for you to get your stuff peacefully
Your hearing will not deal with any contact with your children, it will solely be about the NMO and if you choose to accept it or contest it
and for her to stay in the home she would have needed to get a occupation order
and for her to stay in the home she would have needed to get a occupation order
Many thanks Mavic. Good info - - even if it isn't what I wanted to hear about the order and contact.
I perhaps should have said that the house is rented, not owned and in joint names - not sure if that changes anything ?
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