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New to the forum thought would say hello.
honestly the 20 minutes I have been logged in always the same patterns. Im part of other fathers groups and father abuse is everywhere and no one does [censored] about it. Its depressing! Went to a fathers meeting of late and the room felt like a load of abused fathers huddling around in fear of women.
A while ago I went through the system of child court, it killed me rather literally a few times the last time. Now im having to go through it again because of a psychotic woman. Its not going to be pretty, my child is my world. The problem is women have all the power and some of the stories are just plain f'd up from other fathers I know and talk to. How can no one see a pattern in how women behave toward the father of their children.
Honestly im close to thinking ball gag, a few ft of rope and a shovel lol.
Hi there and welcome
It’s not all doom and gloom here, we do have many members that have gone through the process with much success.
Unfortunately the system is the only one there is and we have to do our best to navigate through it to gain the best result we can... bucking the system won’t get us anywhere, success is more likely if we work within it and not against it.
All the best
Agree with mojo. Read my posts and nine years later I'm in the position I dreamt of.
It's hard it's [censored] but it can work out. Just be the dad your child needs and the child will see who is the better person.
Once the child is old enough the mother loses her control
Do not despair keep positive and have patience
thank you, someone I recently met has been at it for 2 years and ongoing, but 9!! geez that's a long time.
I will not survive that long without my cub, the father in me needs to protect her from all the things I have seen.
Her mother is a fruit loop and has the bad habit of pushing her personal views on to my daughter.
She decided to be vegan so my daughter had to be apparently
Believes the nursery she picked is awesome because it allows kids to play with litteral rubbish you find in a bin, because she is a serious stoner hippy. Where as I said NO! children should not learn to play with trash, ok ok in this city seen needles placed inside plastic bottles, whats in our bin do you really want her to learn its ok to play with rubbish, besides all the metalic objects rusted over. Dont want my girl getting tetnus.
Girls should be girls, as I love marvel like iron man my cub got into it too but no thats bad nope girls dont like iron man its a boy thing.
I swear now if she purposefully string this along for the sake of it i swear I will give her that lift she always wants..... in the boot of my car. Dont get me wrong im a real nice guy not violent or anything but this is beginning to change me a little. frustration how a woman can do this and have no recourse for it. I am a excellent parent, never once harmed my child in any way besides the fact I am also a twice step dad and care for multiple children.
Where as my ex is a screwball in the broadest terms. She actually tried to murder my daughter, yet in telling people look at me gone out liek im lying because my ex has the appearence of a saint.... something i can easily disprove if i was allowed to show some of the video material in my safe. Now i can understand why most seriel killers start with a spouse, cant blame them.
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