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Hello all.
So a week in to interim order my ex has already started playing games and making excuse for me not to see my son and constantly changing the times.
I only saw him 2 times after 7 months of alienation and she has started again. I am fed up of this now. What can I do now. My Fact finding is in Feb but she's narcisstic and she doesn't follow rules and orders and isn't cooperating with me. I've been working with her to negotiate timings she can't make and I've effectively allowed her to change original timings of court just so I see my boy. But now she's realised changing times isn't working so she's now not let me see him today and said she read my email wrong and thought I couldn't make it.
What can I do? The point of this interim contact at a community centre was so that I 're establish the broken bond with my 15 month baby. But it seems like ex is determined to not let that happen and therefore playing around with me.
Someone please help me
hi,
does communication have to go by email? what about text or whatsapp?
if your ex is crazy as you make it sound, then there would not be much point in paying a solicitor to write a warning letter. you could send your own letter. then show court that you were trying to be reasonable with her.
all you can do is try reason with her until your next hearing. then tell the court how she has been stupid during the interim period.
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