[Solved] hello im having some issues with the ex

Hello do you currently have a court order in place
Regardless I'd tread careful don't get angry or send any messages it might be unless she agrees to give you your child on the w.e that you will have to enforce the order
And miss the contact sorry I know its hard I haven't seen my child in over a year and fighting for her now but play it careful abide by all the rules and I'm sure it'll sort out

If she's reasonable have a nice talk with her via text but keep any messages incase she gets angry

Hi There,
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You would need to apply to the courts for an enforcement order, but would need to try and attend mediation first I think.
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I would start off by sending your ex an official letter, this could be either through a solicitor or you could write it your self and have it sent by recorded delivery.
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You say about going back to court, so I am taking from that there is a current order in place, so in the letter state that the points in the order needs to be met and that you are expecting her to follow them.
. you could send her a copy of the order so there is no issue with her remembering what was in it. Remind her that the order was put in place to benifit of your daughter, and that by not sticking to it, she is losing out on time with you, keep the letter very formal and only about contact.
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write that you would like to avoid returning back to court for an enforcement but that you will if you need too.
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As said above keep contact to a minimum, and don't hassle her or she could claim harrasement which will harm your case, keep things above board and sit it out, it's tough when you don't see your children but hopefully this will be short lived and things will get back on track soon.
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GTTS

Some good advice be the better person even if its hard short-time it's for your child even if your ex partner may sometime forget that

yes we have done all the mediation and then courts so it look like back we go i was hoping that i could do something like get the police and just take her without to much stress to my little one but never mind.

thanks you guys very much.

Hi there

Just to mention, with an enforcement application, mediation isn't required, so you can apply directly to court using form C79.

It's a good idea to try writing to her formally, if you have her email address you can do it that way to save time, remind her that if contact doesn't go ahead as ordered you can and will apply for enforcement of the order through the courts, but much prefer to sort out any issues between yourselves.

All the best