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[Solved] Hello everyone - first post

 
(@appariti0n)
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Hello everyone, first time poster here.

As a dad who struggles pretty much daily with self-esteem and anger issues, it's great to have a forum to vent, or get advice.

Just a short blurb about me:

I have a fairly good idea of where my insecurity and anger stems from. I was raised by two very supportive parents, but was bullied extensively while growing up. I then began to bully other kids sometimes in a bid to not be the victim. To this day, I still occasionally have fantasies of going back in time and "changing the script", and turning the tables on my bullies. Not a healthy thing to dwell on much, I know.

Every day is a challenge to remember that my children are not out to make me angry or disrespect me, they are simply interacting with the world in the only way they know how. I am desperate to NOT pass on this anxiety, anger, fear, and feeling of inadequacy to my kids. I really want to be a coach to my kids, rather than a detached parent who doesn't care, or an authoritarian parent who makes demands but doesn't offer support.

Thank you for listening, I look forward to chatting with all of you.

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Topic starter Posted : 07/12/2019 2:22 am
 Toks
(@Toks)
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You sound like a dad with a great amount of emotional intelligence, as well as having the ability to reflect and learn from your own experiences for the benefit of your kids.
Welcome.

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Posted : 07/12/2019 3:45 am
(@dadmod4)
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Hello and welcome to the forum.

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Posted : 09/12/2019 4:37 pm
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