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How do you people get threw all this cos im struggling feel like my world just been dragged from under my feet and for what ?? Lies and more lies why do ex do these horrible things to us she must have a heart still inside cos this is so hard or im weak i dnt no cant figure it out at minute ???
Sorry for putting a downer on the forum but im just empty now
Hi There,
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As said above it's hard when you are going through issues no matter what they are but when children and ex's are involved it's even harder.
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Give us some details though keep exact details private, just an outline and we will try and help you through this.
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GTTS
Split with my ex in end April start May she was letting me see my 10 months old daughter then she put non mol order in out the blue and wont let me see my daughter saying ive threatened not bring her back so its in courts hands now i only berried my 19y/o daughter last january of secondary bone cancer so she knows keeping my daughter apart from me is killing me the split is killing me.. She says ive hit her and been aggresive to her last few months ive not but i have been abit snappy with everyone ill admit cos the loss of my daughter hit me hard .. but when she sent my stuff from the house cos we both have same fone she put her fone in my stuff and ive read messages to her friends off her saying yeh he never physicaly hit me but they wont believe him over me cos he got a bad record from when he was younger so do i keep em or give this back to her ?? Non mol order got sent bye txt to my friends fone is that right ??
Hi There,
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I have never heard of an order being sent to a phone via a txt message, it should as far as I know be an official order that has been issued by a court.
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I would look into this and find out if it's acually official.
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GTTS
I agree with GTTS, it's highly unlikely they would send a text message, do the court have your address?
Are you going through the courts at the moment?
You could send the phone messages on her phone, to your phone, so that you have a record of them that you can take screenshots of, and then give her her phone back.
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