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But after mediation failed yesterday I said we would proceed to court. 3 hrs late Pc visits my home to nform me of the allegation saying it was made weeks ago but they hadnt got round to teling me. I think it is too coincedental, more like she badgered them knowng that she needs legal aid........she is a planner
I agree that's what it sounds like...just speak to the PC and say that you feel it strange that the day that mediation failed and you bought up the subject of court, you get a visit about a complaint made weeks ago, and that your ex has been behaving normally towards you, without any sign that she felt harassed. If you have texts from her to back this up then show them to him.
Best of luck with it 🙂
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