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hi all , my ex is so nasty that handovers is going to be very hard my ex dont want me to have any contact what so ever, i have been in a contact center and that went very well, very, and tbh im afraid of my ex, and her hate towards me, and that and i hope not affect our baby long term has anybody here had a ex that bad and how did you go about things,, her family wont help, and its just me ,, fighting , for baby thanks any and all advice taken,
It's not easy, especially when you have had your relationship with your child constrained for a while, but you need to try and not worry about things that haven't happened yet. I worried lots about handovers, but to be fair, my ex has actually been helpful so far, despite being very nasty during the court process. Are you out of the contact centre now ?
yes super dad,, all ok my way,
So what are you doing for handovers at the minute?
Doing them in a public place with CCTV is always a good option.
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