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Hi, I am in similar situation, haven't seen my 10 years old son for 3.5 months. Accused of lots of false accusations.
I have been through a lot in my life but this is different and I don't know if I am going to survive. Have no family no friends, people who knew us as a family, avoiding me, I am being treated guilty before proven innocent. But only me and my son know how much we love each other, for that I will fight and will survive. One day soon the truth will come out and these dark days will pass. We must stay strong.
Hi mori. I know.. I'm going through the same thing at the moment. My wife made allegations against me, that had me arrested and bailed... In the interim she took out a non molestation order against me with a occupation order. That left me homeless... I've not seen my 4 children in nearly 7 months. Its just an horrendous nightmare. One day she's cuddlling me, telling me I'm a good husband and dad, and the family rock, 2, days later I'm arrested for allegations she made.. This is the hardest thing I've ever done... So here I am on Xmas eve, in a room with a sink. Missing my children, as they are missing me.. Just remember keep it going, keep fighting, cause our children need us more than they know....
Hi, Happy Christmas
Same here. I am having the darkest and most difficult time of my life. Sitting on my own helpless. I literally don't have anyone even to talk to. The damage is done and more to come but all I can say these dark days will pass.
I am sorry I wish I could be more helpful. We may not see our children now but all will change, they need us and we need them. Stay strong and hopeful.
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