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hi all am at the final hearing , soon, however the ex is not having any of it, and is against any and all contact, even thos im seeing the child, as per court order, so what if she contests the final hearing what then help please,,,
Things have been progressing well for you, even though she has objected to everything from the start, I think you should take heart from that and just concentrate on your case, thinking about what she is saying and doing is a only making you feel bad and affecting your own confidence. Worrying about what ifs will only distract you.
Keep doing what you're doing and rise above what she is saying, your contact is going well and at the end of the day, the court is only interested in what is best for the child. Stay focussed , stay reasonable and calm and this will help the court see that it is in your child's best interests to have you involved in your child's life.
All the best
Possible another hearing "contested hearing " as I was just at what was meant to be a final hearing, I agreed with Cafcass recommendation's who were not there, Ex didn't, Mag's got tied of the hearing and quickly said " It needs to booked in as a contested " with Cafcass here in 3 months "
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