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Hi mojo
been to final hearing yrsterday.the judge ckearly said that she doent want to get in the past as its the hearing for choldren welfare.there was a request from ex about prihibited step order by ex when we requested them to put on it was by mutul agreement but now she wanted them to put on me and remove from her.i thought i dont have prblm to take them off if she wants to go to europe but not outside europe.judge looked quiet happy for this as i said childerns happiness is priority.then in cros examin the council started from judgement judge also cleared she doesnt want the judgement to be discused but as u know they are trained he made me confused many tines i said its not in children intrest
but court didnt speak.he finished this wuickly but on the other side i had 59 points in her statment new alegations new things .i was v cinfused because to narrow down them all was imposibke but i tried my best asi could and asked the questions as i thought relevent.its the cafcass famous for father killers .court seems to be giving me supervised but cafcass did the same indirect contact.
decisdion is on 18th.what do you think are chance are?
i m going to write a letter to the head of cafcass abot this
It's just too difficult to predict what might be decided John... I wish I could be more positive for you, I will be hoping that the judge will allow supervised contact, which will be a step forward for you.
Although court will follow what CAFCASS recommends most of the time, sometimes they dont, let's hope that the judge decides to give you a chance and agrees to supervised contact.
Best of luck
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