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I need to share this.
I am separated from my boy due to breaking up with her in February. She has done everything imaginable. Stopping me seeing my son sometimes allowing it and then when I think we have plan, she will cancel and change it. My son is now 13 months and through the 6-7 months of this I have been through a mill. He knows who I am. Everytime I come to get him his little face lights up. I have a way I play with him which no one else does and he remembers it.
So yesterday I was sitting with a group of people I know and we were having a nice time. Conversation led to my situation and this one lady who I didn't know but was part of the group and a friend of one of my friends took my hand said and said very strongly "Fight with your life to see that boy." I said oh I am trying and she said don't try, fight. She then went on to tell me that all the things I was saying my ex is doing she did to her ex husband. She started crying saying she wanted to destroy him and although the court system was on her side with the best interest of the child view, he fought her at every corner.
She said he fought and fought and finally things started going in his favour. Don't fight with her fight through the court no matter how long it takes. He is currently away abroad with his kids who love him and her of course for giving way in the end.
So guys we must must fight!
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