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 Sean1005
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Jan 21, 2024 10:50 am
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I understand you are extremely busy, but if you could just take a moment to let me explain what I will call the most dramatic and disturbing time of my life to date, I have a daughter who is beautiful inside and out she is 5 yrs old and since the day she was born I have tried my hardest and best to give her a great childhood, through playing in the garden with in the summers, providing holidays and just making sure she was generally happy, everyday was a pleasure watching her grow and as I’m 52 and not getting any younger I cherished the time I had with her. 
 
Her mum emotionally abused almost constantly, belittled me in every way possible, to the point where I was like some quivering dog cowering in a corner, I was made to believe I was nothing and not even a man but because I loved my daughter I stayed for her as she was everything to me, the emotional abuse has left me with a deep insecurity and no self esteem, but as I male I couldn’t talk to anyone about my situation as I was to embarrassed and too ashamed by what she had said, after 5 years in the relationship it is now solvent and I no longer reside there and I’m slowly rebuilding my life. 
 
Which brings me to why I have contacted you. I have read your family court report dated March 2023 and find that the insight into how this organisation CAFCASS is been managed and implemented is completely unacceptable, you only have to go on trustpilot reviews to see how negative and irresponsible this organisation is through the voices of the people who have had dealings with them. 
 
In my case, I had unfortunately had an altercation with my ex which I regret, I truly do, that been said my CAFCASS case worker [name removed] completely ignored all my concerns and reports.
 
I have no convictions or cautions, I’ve never been arrested, I have never done drugs or had any other addictions that are illegal in any way. Upto  date I have rung my daughter on a Monday and Thursday at 6 without fail sometimes I’ve been ignored, but I have kept to the protocol, I love my daughter and like to hear how school is and if she has done anything exciting. 
 
After [name removed] did the interview which I found was totally one sided and did not listen to anything I said. And I quote [name removed] ’s recommendations to the court
“ the father has no contact for 2 years, no phone calls and is allowed to write a letter once a month “ 
I am bewildered, disgusted and disappointed to the point where this is effecting my mental health so bad I’m truly considering a life without my daughter is not a life for me, how can this even be considered let alone be recommended, I love my daughter more than anything, yet I’ve been made to feel like I’m worthless.
 
[name removed] has destroyed not only my life but my daughters to by listening to my ex’s over exaggeration and twisted truth, my relationship with my ex was not what I wanted but my relationship with my daughter is, I spoke my daughter on Monday 15th Jan to say we could go to a local farm to see the animals and teach her to swim at the local leisure center, she was so excited and couldn’t wait asking if we could do it this weekend, all that is lost now, as this so called unbiased CAFCASS worker [name removed] has torn yes torn me away from my daughter. 
 
2 years no contact ?
No phone calls ? 
A letter a month ? Which by the way I have no guarantee Amber would even get it.
 
Are we living in the stone ages, this is prejudice of an extreme nature, as a society have we not come along way in seeing how we treat others, Fathers are no different, we cry too. 
 
I have to stay driven and focused that one day I may get to see my daughter and my friends are supporting me in every way possible. 
 
CAFCASS needs either reconstruction or shutting down. it’s an absolute disgrace and more to the point how many FATHERS will commit suicide over there negligence and incompetence. 
 
Every child has the right to have a father in their Life 
 
Thank you for taking time to read this, My only wish is that you try to understand.

I am currently running a petition to have CAFCASS investigated for negligence and incompetence please please everyone help stop these people who destroy families with no remorse. Here is my link please help everyone fathers cry too.

https://petitions.eko.org/petitions/cafcass-destroy-families?share=9414af04-8277-45b2-9621-d86df352fdad&source=&utm_source=

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 DadMod2
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Jan 21, 2024 1:47 pm
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@sean1005 hi. Very sorry to hear this. What reasons did CAFCASS give for not allowing contact for 2 years?

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 Sean1005
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Jan 21, 2024 2:34 pm
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They based there recommendations on the twisted truth and manipulation, looked into any record I had which btw there was all hearsay, ,y relationship with my ex is not the relationship with my daughter, but she didn’t listen to a single word I had to say and she quoted at the beginning of the video interview I’m not biased to you or mum…. Absolute LIES … she had already made her mind up and was going through the motions this Cafcass woman was a disgrace and showed no empathy or compassion what so ever. It’s corrupt beyond words 

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 Sean1005
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Jan 21, 2024 2:36 pm
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GOODBYE MY BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER ❤️x

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