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[Solved] Ex's games and building case

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(@Justbeingdad)
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They claim illness and judge in my case took it at face value and ignored the evidence that was there to support it was lies

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(@dadmod2)
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hi,

what is the travel time to go pick up your child? hopefully your child will be better the next time round.

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(@Justbeingdad)
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1 hour if no traffic. Nearly 2 hours on public transport. Contact to increase to 4 hours from next contact.

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(@warwickshire1)
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You don't have to constantly ask how child is just because she is ill. infact you are meant to be having your child twice a week as per interim order. You can see how she is then, she is actually breaching especially if done more than once preventing you seeing your child.

You should say I am our childrens father and I should be still seeing her as I am no less capable of looking after our child than yourself.
I can understand me missing one contact session , but surely contact could be made up so our child can see their dad. hope he/she gets better soon etc

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I read some more of your posts. The judge at the latest hearing is just agreeing its mis communication to attempt to keep the interim contact going.
If your ex stops you completely its very common to have to wait until your next hearing before you next get contact. The judge seems on your side and he also has to act on err of caution as your child is so young. I am sure he has already picked up on how awkward your ex is and her stopping contact otherwise you wouldn't have been granted any in the meantime. I assume February hearing she will have to produce evidence etc why you cant see your child. my guess is there is unlikely to be any whatsoever and you will just have your contact built up in phased stages. I have been through all this rigmarole before a few times

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