[Solved] Ex's games and building case

Thanks guys. So I sent ex the following

" I'm glad she's doing better and doctors had no cause for concern. Can you please send any medications with her for tomorrow's contact and tell me the last time you gave her a dose before she comes so I don't give her an extra dose. Can you also please tell me which meds need giving. I'll look after her and make sure she doesn't run around if she's looking weak".

Likely she'll reply with she's got worse.

I had enforcement hearing last Tuesday and her lawyer applied for variation so it was held on same day. She tried changing unsupervised contact to supervise and the judge rejected it but found no breach which is so bizarre as she wasn't letting me have contact unless I agreed to her supervised proposal. With regards to previous illness excuses the judge just said it was miscommunication between pair of us. I tried getting the judge to see the breach but she dismissed case.

Did you have to try mediation again before enforcement? Looks like I’ll be back applying for enforcement of my order . Thanks .

Hi citydad

No I didn't go for mediation before enforcement. I don't think you need to. Mines a interim order which I was asking to be enforced, not sure if that makes a difference

Surprise surprise. This morning she messaged me to say our child was slightly better and would be looking forward to seeing me but wanted to change time. I had a feeling the message was a bluff and a game. And I ignored her message as she constantly wants to change times and I had already told her I would be at ordered place at ordered time

2 hours before contact ex sends me a message saying child temperature rocketed up and he wants to sleep and doesn't want to go out and cancelled session. Our child is 1.5, since when did a 1.5 year old child able to communicate they don't want to go out.

Thanks . My ex is slowly slowly playing looser with the order already it’s only been in force a month or so