[Solved] Ex's games and building case

hi,

have a read of this:

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/fabricated-or-induced-illness/

Here's another email from her received:

"I couldn't update you with more details because last night was long & today was trying to get some rest.

They hospital wanted to see improvement before discharging her so gave her diarolyte but couldn't keep anything down so they gave her antisickness medicine and that improved her and then i gave her more diarolyte this morning and that gave her some energy and she passed stool. She seems a little better but still very weak to play and run and ate a little today."

Notice how she talks about not playing etc. It's all leading up towards cancellation. She's only 1.5 years of age.

This is all leading to cancellation of this weekend where the judge ordered I was able to take her away and my contact hours were due to Increase.

Any idea how to reply??

hi,

ask her what medicine she needs and you can giver her doses as and when required. and that you wont let her run around when she is with you.

Perhaps you could say ok as the child is unwell and prob needs to rest up etc please make the time up to me and I’ll have 2 weekend of contact to make up for the time etc . Or say let me know on the day if child is ok and well enough to see me and that it’s ok if you have a weekend of doing not a lot but being curled up on the sofa having a family movie day etc with your kids .If it keeps happening and it’s just an excuse then go to court for enformcnet .

yep, if this keeps happening where she stops you seeing your child due to illness, then you should go back to court. my 3 year old had a nasty fever the other week. ex just told me how often to give calpol. was scary lol. she was waking up so many times at night, crying for water and burning up.