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Hi all, first time on here, have read some fantastic advice on all areas. I wondered if I could pull on anyone experiences.
I am currently under a court order which only allows me to see my child with supervision, I have to just push back (the complete lies by my Ex partner and the biased treatment by cafcass) thoughts as I can’t change what has already happened.
My child is 10 and I had joint custody since they were 4 up until this happened just over 2 years ago, all I focus on in the time we have together is ‘the now’ stuff, their week, school, fortnite and rebuilding the relationship etc. 2 weeks prior, one of the supervisors had advised me that there was a facility where, if agreed by all parties, for 2 hours you could go out unsupervised. My child asked me if we could go out together, we had a little chat, where I asked if they were sure and comfortable being with Dad on own and we both then asked supervisor together to see if possible in the near future.
Well. ex partner sends email to my lawyers, claiming I forced my child into asking etc. Do you guys think I should get evidence from supervisors as I have feeling it will be used at next court hearing to make me look bad? and do you think I should send such to cafcass prior court, as it is highly relevant to my child and our relationship?
Sorry for waffling
hi,
yes you should contact cafcass to clear these things up. similar things happened to me. ex kept on interrogating my kids to try dig up dirt on me, then went crying to cafcass lol.
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